When someone does us wrong, we ask for something to teach them a lesson. We give our problem to something bigger than us. What is it that teaches them a lesson? It is something that can’t be seen, it can’t be heard, and it can’t be known.
This works. We don’t get angry. We don’t obsessively rethink what happened. It does not ruin our day when someone does us wrong. We must stop being unfair ourselves to qualify for this help from an unknown power. Many people call it God. Some of us are atheist and we can call it the all powerful all.