The group of people you are with want you to be unfair to other groups of people. The other groups of people are in groups that want them to be unfair to other groups. These kinds of groups of people won’t let the people in the groups leave the group. They won’t let people think for themselves. They are told people that think for themselves are traitors or evil. These people have been hurt so badly they can’t think straight.
Sometimes I have thoughts that bother me that want to appear in my mind. If I fight them, they bother me more. If I let them be, they go away. They demand that I become honest about what I am. I am not better or worse than anyone else when I am not doing anything. It is only my choices of what I will think about and do that make me a helpful or harmful person to others.